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Time to stand together in peace and end the violence and abuse - one person, one mind, one heart at a time.
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Mar 6, 20245 min read
Give up the Guilt for Gratitude
Having something that someone else needs or desires may result in a combination of confusing emotions.
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Feb 26, 20245 min read
Gender Based Violence - Not just a Women's Issue
GBV against boys and men is severely underreported.
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Feb 12, 20241 min read
We are not all the same!
If there is one thing we should learn as soon as possible, it is that no one is universally liked or understood.
We are different.
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Dec 31, 20231 min read
Contemplations
I wrote this piece 4 years ago. How sad so little has changed, only now I see more gendered memes that raise one gender to a higher standard
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Dec 8, 20232 min read
The Law is not Morality
The law is not morality!
When we are talking intimate, social crimes this is one of the hardest things for survivors to understand.
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Dec 1, 20235 min read
Trauma Bonds
Trauma bonds often linger, even after you have left your abuser. Feelings of “missing” them are common even though they have hurt you.
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Nov 29, 20231 min read
Coercion. Manipulation. Exploitation.
The question is, what are we evolving into?
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Apr 18, 20231 min read
My2Cents on Cycle Breaking
We can talk about all those things cyclically, handing them down from generation to generation building resentment, fear, hatred...
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Apr 11, 20231 min read
My2Cents on Healing
It is easy to just agree with what everyone is saying and doing. It is much harder to blaze your own trail.
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Feb 4, 20223 min read
OptiMysed News Vol. 1 2022
Everybody dies, but not everyone truly lives. One Life. Live It! Connected Humanity - It's the OptiMyst Way Optimysed Healing OptiMysed...
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Jun 16, 20214 min read
Verhale van Hoop en Geneesing (Vol. 1)
Op die ouderdom van 15 was ek die nuwe kind in die skool. Ek het die meeste van die kinders geken. Maar was nie deel van die groep nie,...
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Jun 16, 20214 min read
Survivor Stories of Hope and Healing (Vol. 1)
At the age of 15, I was the new kid in school. I knew most of the kids, but was not included in the different friendship groups because I...
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Feb 1, 20213 min read
Impossible Possibility not Toxic Positivity
Believe in impossible possibilities.
Believe in the indomitable spirit of humanity.
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Dec 9, 20201 min read
I am not "Strong" I am Journeying
Sometimes we look at people and think they are stronger than us and we could never have that strength, but it isn't true.
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